As we age, one of the most sobering realities is that studies indicate we begin losing friends after the age of 25. Various factors contribute to this decline, including the demands of careers, serious relationships, and family responsibilities. With fewer opportunities to meet new people and nurture friendships—especially compared to our school years—it's easy for connections to fade.
However, a heartwarming story from Liverpool, England, highlights that lasting friendships are indeed possible. George Price, 96, and George Foukes, 95, are celebrating an incredible 90 years of friendship, a testament to their dedication to staying connected.
The pair first met in 1934 while living on the same street in Wirral, a peninsula in northwest England. With limited entertainment options at home, the young boys spent their time playing outside and enjoying their local park. Their childhood friend group included three other boys, though they have since passed away.
Price attributes the longevity of their friendship to their commitment to keeping in touch. “As you grow up, friends come and go. There may be times when you don’t see each other as much, but George and I have always stayed in contact. He calls me most evenings,” Price shared with the Liverpool Echo.
So, what’s the secret to their enduring friendship? Price believes it boils down to surrounding oneself with good people. “Choosing friends who share similar values, morals, and qualities is essential,” he explained. “Knowing nice people is key.”
Nurturing Lifelong Friendships
Price’s insight into maintaining a lifelong friendship resonates with relationship experts. Therapists emphasize that making an effort to connect with friends is crucial, regardless of family and professional obligations.
“Whether it’s meeting for lunch, responding to messages promptly, or scheduling virtual hangouts, it’s important to carve out time to connect,” says Mac Stanley Cazeau, a couples therapist based in New York City.
Cazeau also notes that a balanced friendship, characterized by mutual support and understanding, is vital. “Strive to be as good to your friends as you wish them to be to you,” he advises. Being a supportive listener without judgment can significantly impact a friend's mental well-being.
The friendship between the two Georges serves as an inspiring example for all of us, especially those who may feel the weight of lost connections over time. Their story illustrates that with intentionality and effort, friendships can flourish and endure throughout life.